Opposing Views : 50 Shades of Skin

So I've decided to shake things up a bit and add an antithetical view to my own, it felt kinda lonely asking all those rhetorical questions so the next couple of posts I'll be having guest bloggers give their take in contrast to mine on various issues.

Days of Future Past

Spoiler alert ... I kid , this has nothing to do with the movie I just kinda liked the title and thought why the hell not. What I wanna talk about is something completely different.   So recently I was having a talk with a very close friend about how at some point we just start seeing things differently,  we develop a matured perspective as I would like to call. And she asked me what triggers it?